Something I will share about myself is that I have a very hard time being a "beginner" at anything. I think I should be able to pick something up and be a pro. This unbecoming character trait has lead me to give up more that one activity. I start, assuming that I will
whizz right though it only to find that I am in no way
equipped to tackle such a task. In the end, I make myself feel
incompetent and like a failure...great huh?
I completed the
cherry dress for the girls with a lot of help from my mom. She walked me through it and even fixed a couple of my mistakes herself. After her amazing tutelage, I felt more than confident starting the second dress. Boy was I wrong. I actually had a conversation with the dress the other day telling it that it will NOT beat me. Yes, I am bordering on insane at this point. After taking every, and I mean EVERY, part of the dress apart at least once, I was ready to give up sewing clothing all together. I was going to admit defeat and reserve my machine for house projects and
accessory items only. And then I came to my senses.
I decided that even though the dress pattern says simple, you really do need at least
some sewing experience. It has 2 pockets, a front and back yoke, straps and a bottom piece and it requires gathering. That is a lot to bite off for someone who has never sewn before. The dress is almost done but when the
hand sewing of the front yoke went south, I decided that it needed to shelved...for a while...maybe for a long while.
Yesterday I made a fresh start. I chose a pattern with only 3 pieces to deal with, a front and 2 back pieces. It is a little tank for the girls and the plan is to make either a bloomer or a pair of crop pants to go with it. The construction is far from perfect but it gave me a
manageable amount to work with and I got more practice with bias tape and hemming.


I am happy to report that I have not given up sewing all together. I have simply decided to take on skill level appropriate projects. This benefits me two-fold, I am making items that I will actually put my kids in because they don't look like a bloody mess and I feel good about myself when they're finished.